Roots and Branches
Send Message
(770) 908-0863
  • Home
  • Spiritual Direction and Psychotherapy
  • Articles
  • Infidelity
  • Religious Abuse
  • Domestic Abuse
  • IFS
  • The Enneagram
  • Emotional Freedom Technique
  • Despachos
  • Contact Us

Articles Written by Virginia Felder

Mirror of Madness

This article was originally published in 1992 by the Haworth Press, Inc. in the Voices issue, titled Peace, War and Mental Health. And under The Creation of the Squirrel Apacheta, begin with “This article was published in “Sacred Hoop: Celebrating the Circle of Life,” London, Issue 56, 2007.
This article explores the yearning for reveApachetas—sacred cairns from Peruvian shamanic traditions—often mark ancient pilgrimage routes that are still traveled today. These sites serve as places of ceremonial healing and connection with the mountain spirits (apus), the Earth Mother (Pachamama), and the natural world. While Jenny Felder works within these traditions, her attempt to build her own apacheta led to unexpected lessons—guided by a small, agile, four-legged teacher.nge that can pave the way for addictive patterns of malicious behavior. Dr. Felder draws from both her personal experiences and her psychotherapy practice to identify the “malice fix”—an addictive response to pain that offers momentary relief but ultimately interferes with genuine healing. The “mirror of madness” occurs when a distressed individual provokes another person into expressing pain and fury, effectively reflecting these emotions back to their true source. In this dynamic, the target person embodies the anguish, temporarily relieving the initiator of their burden. The article also highlights pathways for intervention within this relational pattern.

Teachings from The Creation of the Squirrel Apacheta

Apachetas—sacred cairns from Peruvian shamanic traditions—often mark ancient pilgrimage routes that are still traveled today. These sites serve as places of ceremonial healing and connection with the mountain spirits (apus), the Earth Mother (Pachamama), and the natural world. While Jenny Felder works within these traditions, her attempt to build her own apacheta led to unexpected lessons—guided by a small, agile, four-legged teacher.

Metamorphosis: Death as a Passageway for Family Transformation

Originally published in the Winter 1991 issue of Voices, titled “Midwifing Death,” this article recounts deeply personal family experiences surrounding the diagnosis, illness, and passing of the author’s brother, Bill, due to a brain tumor. After a lifetime of trying to bring the family together, Bill ultimately succeeded in uniting them through his death, offering a profound reflection on loss, connection, and transformation.

“The Effects of PMS on Sexual Desire,” Family Therapy News, newspaper of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Jan/Feb ‘89.

“A Therapist Is Not a Hairdresser,” (original title was “Love Affairs: A Rebuttal to Mythic Resolutions”), Family Therapy Networker, May/June ‘89.

Dissertation The Use of Spiritual Exercises for Ministering to Victims of Abuse as Informed by Jungian Psychology and Liberation Theology, 1997.

Roots and Branches
Home IFS Despachos Articles and Resources InfidelityReligious Abuse The Enneagram Domestic Abuse Spiritual Direction and Psychotherapy Emotional Freedom Technique Contact Us
© 2026 Roots and Branches. All rights reserved. Website by Network Solutions.

We use cookies to enable essential functionality on our website and analyze website traffic. For more information, read our Cookies and Privacy Policy.

Your Cookie Settings

We use cookies to enable essential functionality on our website and analyze website traffic. For more information, read our our Cookies and Privacy Policy below.

Cookie Categories
Essential

These cookies are strictly necessary to provide you with services available through our websites.

Analytics

These cookies collect information that is used in aggregate and in an anonymized form to help us understand how our website is being used and how effectively our site is performing.